Now that we’ve halted traveling for a few weeks, we’ve had some time to reflect on our adventure and your questions.
Here’s what you wanted to know.
What did you learn about dealing with some of your more stressful moments that had to be things you did not expect to have to deal with on this journey?
We are champs are handling major issues. We can laugh it off when the camper catches fire or when we’re on the verge of running out of gas in the middle of nowhere Wyoming. I have a switch that flips automatically when huge obstacles get in my way. I can usually handle them calmly and swiftly and hold it all together. We kind of take turns being stressed. Not intentionally, it just happens that way now, which is a relief.
On the other hand, I often fall apart because of the small stuff. Maybe it’s just a release of the built-up stress over time that comes out when I drop a fork in the dirt or spill coffee on a cold morning in Yellowstone. Luckily, James balances me out and handles the insignificant stuff like a boss.
Of all the places you’ve seen and the things you’ve done in the past year what has been your favourite adventure?
This is such a difficult question, but a few things come to mind.
What are the top 5 pieces of advice you would give to someone else who has the desire to just travel for a year?
Minimize – Get rid of as much junk as possible. The less stuff you have, the easier it is to pack and prioritize. Plus, it’s freeing not to have so much stuff laying around.
Plan ahead – We planned out some of our year and sometimes we just decided to wing it. The problem with winging it was that we spent a ton of time booking places to stay, researching things to do and searching for transportation when we went somewhere new.
Prepare to unplug – It’s 2017 and technology has made it possible for us to be plugged in 24/7 right? Wrong. We had zero cell service in several locations, limited access to free wifi and no access to data out of the country. It was harder than we thought to find a good internet connection even in the U.S. If you’re working or researching things on the road make sure you schedule trips to the nearest Starbucks or public library for occasional connections to the rest of the world.
Campground costs – We thought staying in our camper would save money. Turns out between the cost of campgrounds and the extra gas we spent pulling our camper, it wasn’t much cheaper than AirBnB. The camper has a lot of perks but it won’t necessarily save you a ton of money.
Make friends – Talk to park rangers, locals, tourists, waiters, bartenders and shop owners. We got the best recommendations for things to do, hikes, places to eat, breweries and more from chatting people up. Plus, it can get lonely on the road after a while so don’t be shy.
In one year, what have you best learned about being together 24-7?
I’ve learned that it’s difficult to be with anyone that much. Living together in a small space wasn’t as challenging as I expected. But I missed my friends, family and girls night. It was hard to be with the same person all day, every day for the most part.
We learned to take some quiet time occasionally and split up our workload when volunteering rather than doing everything together. We learned to walk away sometimes and to pick our battles. It was tough but we came out on the other end stronger than ever.
In all of your travels, what has been the most pleasant and unexpected surprise?
So much of our trip was unexpected. Some surprises were more pleasant than others but a few places really jumped out as being more spectacular than I anticipated.
The Library of Congress in D.C. was obviously going to be amazing. I love bookstores more than any human should and soak them in like oxygen. But the architecture and feel of this building was completely unexpected. Everything was so beautiful from the paintings on the ceilings to the story of the art on the walls to the smell of the books and the worn down indentions in the marble staircases. My library card is one of my favorite souvenirs from our whole year.
While Yellowstone lived up to the hype, the Grand Tetons were indescribable. If you followed our journey to Wyoming you know it wasn’t the smoothest part of our trip. We had so many challenges and I had a ton of let-downs in the first week or so after we arrived. And then we went to the Tetons and everything changed. It was like I could breath again, only to have my breath taken away by those awesome snow-capped peaks, beautiful fall colors and rustic barns that ended up being some of my favorite photos from our trip.
Most of you know that Vietnam ended up being very high up on my list by the end of our trip, but it truly was one of the biggest surprises. It was fascinating, foreign, strange, interesting, beautiful, dark, mind-blowing and real. That was the best part – I felt like I was seeing the real people and places that Vietnam had to offer, not just the tourist attractions.
In all of your travels, how bad do you miss Landon Wood?
I’m going to let James handle this one…
To say I missed Landon like Shaq misses free throws would be an understatement. Needless to say, I cried myself to sleep every other 4th night.
Is that beard as soft as it looks?
No. Just no.
Thanks to everyone who submitted and feel free to shoot questions to us anytime!
One of my favorite things about traveling for a year is that we could make decisions about where to go and what to do on a whim, like that time we found $40 flights to Ireland.
Our trip was winding down in Italy and James had dropped a few not-so-subtle hints about wanting to go back to Ireland. It’s hard to turn down Ireland, especially when the flights were so cheap. So off we went.
We spent the final 10 days of our trip hiking in the rain, drinking in pubs, wandering the streets of Cork and partaking in a food festival in Kinsale.
The grass is quite literally greener in Ireland. And the people are incredibly friendly. I could use a little more sunshine, but I have very few complaints about this beautiful country.
This was our first trip to Northern Ireland and it was stunning. If you know me at all you probably know I have a bit of a love affair with trees. They fascinate me and I could take photos of them all day. OK, I didn’t spend all day photographing the Dark Hedges (which apparently were used in some important “Game of Thrones” scenes), but they really are spectacular.
Despite some mean, cold rain, the Giant’s Causeway also in Northern Ireland was awesome — awesome in that awe-inspired, unbelievable nature kind of way.
The hexagon stones really do look like they were placed there by some giant being and stomped into place. And the waves. I’ve never seen waves that large before.
Also new to us was County Cork. We didn’t make it to Cork during our first trip but we spent a couple of days wandering the streets and exploring nearby recommendations like Kinsale, which turned out to be one of our favorite places. It’s an adorable town on the river where festivals cover the streets most weekends and we were lucky enough to stumble across a local food festival that included fresh mussels and fish and chips. I don’t even have photos of Kinsale because I was too busy taking it in to pull out my camera. That ought to tell you something.
Instead, here are some of my favorites from Cork starting with another case of which is side is better, the front or the back.
We stopped off in Glendalough National Park just south of Dublin for some hiking where we found the coolest monastery and some incredible views.
We ended our trip in Dublin where we revisited a few favorite spots and explored some new ones, like the Christ Church Cathedral where I spent hours, literally hours, memorized by the floors.
And then, we came back to Oklahoma and if you’ve been keeping up with us, you know the rest. If not check out my blog on what we’re up to here.
That’s it. I’m all caught up on the places we traveled, so now what? Well, coming home has been an adjustment to say the least and we’re still taking road trips every chance we get so keep checking back for weekly blogs on adjusting to the non-travel life, ramping up our businesses and the road trips that are keeping me sane.
Next week, I’ll tackle those questions you’ve been asking about our trip. So, last chance: What do you want to know about our year on the road?
This is a big statement from someone who lives to travel. There is nothing that makes me happier than to explore new places and cultures and soak up experiences.
But after a full year of traveling whenever and wherever we wanted, I was reassured that my favorite place on the planet is standing right next to this column with that view.
That is Michelangelo’s tomb inside Santa Croce, the Church of the Holy Cross, in Florence.
I love Michelangelo and I love historical churches with gothic architecture. But this is not the prettiest, most ornate or most interesting church I’ve ever visited. It does, however, represent the thing I love most about travel.
It embodies the experiences that I’ve spent my life chasing, that shape my decisions.
Standing in front of that tomb, surrounded by tombs of other great men like Dante Alighieri, Niccolo Machiavelli and Galileo Galilei, is an experience like no other. Maybe, if I breath deep enough, I’ll soak in some of the magic that lingers from the bodies buried there. Maybe I’ll understand a little more about Italy, about art, about life.
Or maybe not.
What I do know is that I’m better for having been there; for having seen it; for allowing myself to be moved by something; for believing in something; and for putting in the effort to be there, hoping that the experience is worth it. And it is, 100 percent.
This is my happy place.
The church is filled with stunning artifacts, architectural details and stained glass windows. Here are a few more photos of my favorite place on earth.
Clearly, it’s a beautiful building, but it pales in comparison to some of the other churches I’ve seen. That’s OK because it’s not about that. It’s about the feeling I have here and that is the reason I travel.
Where’s your happy place?Comment below and thanks for reading!
Some places leave me speechless because I can’t come up with the right words, but occasionally I come across a place where the words I’m searching for just don’t exist.
We fell in love with Florence during our belated honeymoon in 2011.
Everything about this city is magical — the cobblestone streets, the architecture, the history, the food, the wine, the art, the people. Really, everything.
It was a no-brainer that we should toast the end of our biggest travel adventure yet in our favorite city.
In March, we spent a week strolling the streets and daydreaming about the day we move to the most amazing city in the world.
Florence was definitely the highlight of our month in Italy but we did hit a few other notable destinations while we were adopting the Italian lifestyle.
On our way to Florence, we stopped over in Rome for a day where we walked the forum for hours and touched every inch of the Colosseum that we could get our hands on. You can literally feel the history in those stones.
Since those were our second trips to Rome and Florence, it was time for something new.
Next, we headed south to Naples where we ate some insane pizza and walked the lava-covered streets of Pompeii where we gushed over ruts in the roads made by chariots that date back before 79 A.D. when Mount Vesuvius erupted destroying the ancient city.
Since we came this far, why not spend a few days relaxing on the Amalfi Coast. It was off-season, which meant the towns were quiet. We spent our time eating delicious seafood, laying in the sun, sipping coffee and staring at the 360-degree views. Two weeks later, James had to drag me out of the stunning landscape that covers Italy’s western coast.
Looking back, I would have spent a little more time in Italy last year. This place speaks my love language and will always hold a very special place in my heart.
BONUS: I love Italy so much that I decided to publish a second post this week! Check back Thursday for another post where I’ll introduce you to my favorite building on the planet, which happens to be in Italy. You might be surprised at what it is.
If you had one month to spend anywhere in the world, where would it be? Comment below.
I just can’t get it through my head, despite dozens of conversations over the past couple weeks with friends, family and acquaintances about our next steps.
In all of those conversations, one question always comes up: Where is your favorite place?
Every place is so different from the others. They all offered unique experiences that I’ll never forget. It would be like choosing my favorite child to pick only one, but there is a place that, no matter the day or who’s asking, it always comes to mind.
Vietnam stands out to me for many reasons but mostly because it was surprising. I’ve wanted to go to Vietnam for years and it didn’t only hold up, it exceeded expectations. My heart still melts a little ever time I see a photo on my phone or open my kitchen drawer and see the soup spoons that made it home unscathed.
Over three weeks we traveled from Hanoi in the north to the Mekong Delta in the south and a few stops in between, including my favorite city HoiAn. I already gushed over the people, places, markets and food in Vietnam so rather than repeating all of the things I loved, I thought you’d like a little glimpse into our trip. Maybe this will give you a little taste of what I loved so much.
We started in Hanoi.
Took a quick trip to Sapa for some hiking.
Next up, Halong Bay for a cruise and a private beach bungalow. Not too shabby.
Then on to the center of the country where we fell in love with HoiAn, which you already know about, and discovered some interesting sites in Hue.
Now we’re moving south to find the floating market in the Mekong Delta.
Last, but certainly not least, a prolonged visit to Ho Chi Minh (Saignon) where we spent about 10 days exploring the city while James got his first root canal.
If you made it all the way to the end then congrats and thanks for hanging in there! Where’s the place that surprised you the most? Comment below. We love hearing from you guys!